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what it is like where i live and work

i have been thinking for a long time about the conflicts we get into on bhuz due to our assumption all is the same in this dance no matter where you go. ....if we all took a min. and "talked" about it , things might be more civil .
so let me start !
californias central valley is 100's of miles long. it is divided by south, central and north valley. that said, i am in the center, fresno. tulare county is a good 40 to 50 min. south. bakersfield ( which is concidered socal btw ) is 2 hours south. merced is little over an hour north. that said , let me tell you that just a few miles can bring a whole world of difference . fresno city hall is ran by evanglicals who do not believe in dance . there are 3 resturants that have a dancer, only one has a permit....and that took 1 year to get. so, it will only be a matter of time untill the others are called on the carpet by the ABC.
we do have several small resturants that cater to the ethnic people here . i dance at private parties at these places. most all other bookings are in home..90% of my cliental are of some middle eastern blood . what they want is very specific..so is what they dont want.
personally, i love it when they sing along with all my routene songs . last week i had the pleasure of working for a family that was hye and from iraq...i got to use wonderful music.
so, i will continue this saga...and a little about how i came up in this dance..all the live music and what the families taught us about their dance.

  1. " our town has yahoo groups and event lists "

    by on 03-31-2011 at 09:40 AM (what it is like where i live and work)
    well that is great !..good for you !..i keep learning what it is like to work in other towns from reading bhuz...even learn from attacks. it is not that these lists do not appear everywhere...it is the fact that they only work IF ALL ARE ALLOWED TO BE ON THE LIST!
    but as i have said, it is small here, and ANY event...can be hurt.our town was turned upside down for a weekend by the promise keepers...they did some really odd and offensive things in our resturants and or art district.
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  2. mean people suck...all towns are not alike!!!

    by on 03-30-2011 at 11:09 AM (what it is like where i live and work)
    YES !..we have to take a civil was re enactment to heart !..it is the second largest in the USA..1st being gettysburg. when it hits the same week end as ANYTHING...all media etc. is on them..not to mention all hotels are full.
    we have the second largest hmong community as well. when general pows funeral took a month here....the town was packed and nothing else got much attention.
    we do not get "big names" ..what ever that means...anyone can print their name real big....it ...
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  3. time for rougue...venue for the dreamers, part timers..the crackpot

    by on 03-03-2011 at 11:35 AM (what it is like where i live and work)
    yep, here we go again !..do not know how this "festival" hits other...
    i actually get new clients..those who have not used us, do now..and they stay my client..so, yeah..thats a good thing!
    but the rest of it...last year there was a "show" called uncle buckeys ATS....american trailer style bellydance...not to mention 2 shows..yes 2 that had bellydance under the sea....yeah.
    the year before that one of the "under the sea" groups brought out paper ...
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  4. suprise bridal party 2/26/11 from yosemite

    by on 02-28-2011 at 02:22 PM (what it is like where i live and work)
    i had recieved an e mail 2 months ago from a woman wanting to bring in a bridal shower for a saturday night class . ok. so, last saturday night they all came down. they arrived in several cars...then 2 of them got in one car and the 3 left...ok. hmmmmmmm
    the ladies are all in their 20's but are fresh and happy ..teenish.
    so, i ask why the other ladies left....they all blush..."we are 7th day adventist and not supposed to dance "
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  5. how we were taught in the" old days"

    by on 02-03-2011 at 10:46 AM (what it is like where i live and work)
    the first dancers i saw were at the fez in hollywood calif. the show opened with marta shill, then there was feruiz aram , then laura best who was my first teacher. now i can only speak for how I was taught and what that was where I was....it was magic! the dancers from the top resturants were the teachers . i had the extra edge due to janaeni coming from a strong ethnic community back east. she had stories and she had skills passed from "the horses mouth"...i keep it alive .
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