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Old 04-11-2007, 12:36 PM   #19
*Shira*
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Many a woman owns sexy lingerie - some of these women aren't even in a relationship, but own it anyway. And no, they're not aspiring to use it as their "uniform" for services that they sell...

Many an amateur photographer owns a high-end camera even though the photos they take are just for their personal pleasure.

Many a woman owns a beautiful evening gown or two even though she will never be on the red carpet at the Oscars.

So why shouldn't someone own a beautiful belly dance costume if she can afford it and if she loves it?

I've seen SO many belly dance students over the years experience a rise in their self-esteem simply by putting on a costume that made them feel beautiful. And a person who feels that she looks great will probably dance with more joy and confidence as well. Only a mean-spirited person would try to poke a hole in the pleasure someone else takes from looking fabulous.
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