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Originally Posted by ssipes
Maybe the solution to your problem lies in your brain, not your thights -- as in unbrainwashing yourself out of thinking that a normal and healthy shape is "gross". It is not normal (for most women, anyway) to not have fat on the inner thighs.
I have to agree with Dani, if you are pining after your 18yro bod at 22, you are going to have a miserable life.
Sedonia
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Amen.
I love my body at 31 more than I loved it at 16. Sure it helps that I've gotten into great shape but I've worked harder on mine, teaching myself to love and appreciate what I have. My thighs have always touched, even when I was a skinny minny 14 year old. So I haven't ever worried about that or thought it was wierd - of course there is fat there - that's one of the two places we store fat for babymaking! Women without any fat stores won't be able to get pregnant and have babies. And that's really what makes a woman attractive, if you go back to our species origin - people are attracted to fertility and health. anyway, I agree Sedonia - whenever we want to criticize something on our body, we should try to consider how it might be beautiful instead. especially at 22 - one doesn't have any of the things that the rest of us need to worry about, like wrinkles!