well...blush...
i ran off to the mall..tried visiting the other makeup vendors first but kept longingly looking over at the MAC counter with its bright colors and black T-shirted techs..so I slinked over and found that stick Zumarrad mentioned..Studio fix? I LOVE it. Of course it requires a very expensive brush to put it on but I was in treat mode..so got the stick, the brush, some setting powder and even splurged on the charged water whatever the heck that was. She didnt have to sell me a thing, she showed me how to apply it and i was sold on all of it.
I walked out $347.00 less in the bank account but happy. (i picked up eye shadows, gloss, mascara, liner, more brushes..i mean i was already THERE lol)