Hi Lisa! Welcome to bhuz! Regarding your video question, I've heard of a video called
Dance of the Belly by Cindy Loader, but I have no idea whether it's any good. She charges $45 for DVD's, which seems pretty expensive to me, so you might want to get some opinions from people who have seen it before you buy it. Here's the web link:
http://www.jewelsofthenile.net/videos.php