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Originally Posted by bellydancerinfo
But I think as I get older (yesterday was my birthday so I feel all sage today) I am getting looser. I dont care what others are doing. He can post whatever he wants and it makes absolutely no impact on my life. I can choose NOT to watch it.
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I also agreee with Sarah.
Just for the record, I am not biased because I 'know' him, nor am I pushing double standards. If this were a woman, I couldn't care less. I too, don't care what others do...I don't need to watch it if that's what I choose. As for the issues that women 'deal' with within bellydancing, really, the majority of us a American or do live in free countries....there are lots of worse things out there for us 'women to suffer'....a dancing man will not set us back any. We are only victims of what we subject ourselves to.
It really urks me how women squabble over our 'rights' and what-not...bellydancers get the same slack from jane-shmoo as strippers get from bellydancers. None of us are quite seen as 'norm' yet we sure can sit there and bash each other...when we share the same passion...yish...