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not judging
"When we judge another person the only thing we prove is that we are a person who needs to judge."
There is no judgement involved of him as a person. He can be the most fantastic person in the world - I don't know and I don't care - I'm seeing him on a youtube clip presenting as a belly dancer, something I do care about.
What's relevant is what kind of behavior reflects well on belly dance IF generally people get pissed off about being treated like or considered as strippers or worse if they take up BD.
I'm making no moral or ethical evaluation on this guy - I'm saying that a) he doesn't reflect positively on bellydance by dressing in this manner and representing BD given typical perceptions; and b) his dancing isn't good enough to counterbalance the presentation. That is the attire is too distracting.
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