[tahiradancer]

All the above is good advise. Personally, (34DD) I find that if I do not replace the chest band with gros grain ribbon or something simular, the bra has too much stretch.

Now, as one who wears sari's frequently, I would respectfully suggest that a sari and a decorated bra would be somewhat inauthentic. Also, decorated bras are not generally launderable. A turkish style coat, if done right, can be very titillating. If you were to make it keyhole style, wear either a bra or decorated choli underneath with buttons only for the 4 - 6 inches below the bust, adding a scarf around the hips, you'd be able to show off your belly in a very sexy, yet inconspicuous way.

Another suggestion on the sari front is a salwar kameez (pants and a long top) or a lehgna choli (skirt and short top). Both of which can be gotten off of e-bay.

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