I had planned on getting my bellybutton pierced when I reach my weight goal. However, I would much rather splurge on a brand new costume instead. So I am thinking of getting it done before then. I have a few questions for those of you have pierced your bellybuttons and those considering it.
1. does it hurt?
2. what kind of maintenance is there? (Turn it every day, wash with peroxide, etc)
3. do you think it would look bad on "bigger" belly?
4. any other suggestions/comments?
Thanks for your input!
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07-27-2007 08:38 PM #1Advanced BHUZzer



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07-27-2007 08:50 PM #2Advanced BHUZzer



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1. I felt a sharp pinch, and I think I jumped a little. A little worse than ear piercing, but not all of the aching afterwards, at least for me.
2. My directions were to wash with anti-bacterial soap and turn, I think once a day (maybe twice). No peroxide or alcohol.
3. I think so. But then again, I'm a few pounds more than when I got mine, so I'd better like the way it looks on bigger bellies.
4. comment: I still don't exactly know how to take mine out, but I happen to like the closed ring, so I haven't felt the need for other belly jewels.
Oh, and I am pretty sure my piercing was less than my costumes. But maybe inflation has changed that too. Piercing about 5 years before first costume.
07-27-2007 11:10 PM #3Mega BHUZzer




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Mine got infected some how, I used bactine and it was leared up in just a few days DO NOT USE PEROXIDE OR ALCOHOL. And it hurt but only for a min, its no worse than ear piercing
07-27-2007 11:39 PM #4Advanced BHUZzer



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1. Hurt intensely for a very brief moment. Floated on endorphins for the rest of the day. Worse than the piercing pain was the next day when I unthinkingly hitched a laundry basket into my hip/waist. Ow! Also, it really will take the six months or so to heal that they say it will, and some of your clothing might be uncomfortable/unwearable during the first couple of months.
2. Yep, anti-bacterial soap once a day, and also bactine twice a day. Rotating is important.
3. I thought my belly was really too big for a piercing when I had it done, but decided to do it anyway. When I stood up from the piercing couch and looked in the mirror, I could not believe that was my belly looking so sexy with its navel ring. So I'd say go for it, no matter what size you think you are!
4. Leave the initial piercing ring in for a good long time before you try switching rings around.
07-27-2007 11:41 PM #5Mega BHUZzer




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Go to a reputable piercer and make sure you listen to your piercer about the after care, not friends, family, etc. Lots of people will have advice for you, but you should only trust your piercer (if that person is reputable). I have had mine for almost ten years and I remember that it took almost 9 months to fully heal. Plan on wearing low rise clothing during the healing process; if not, it will get sore.
I change my belly ring pretty frequently - I have different ones to match my costumes! They are as easy to change as earrings (although the closed ring style is harder than the half moon/banana shape), but I always wash the belly ring with antibacterial soap before putting it in.
Asd far as hurt, mine did not; however, I have a very high tolerance to pain. My 18 year old daughter does not though, and she only winced slightly when the needle went through - she made me go with her and hold her hand!!! A good piercer will do it very quickly.
07-28-2007 12:29 AM #6Advanced BHUZzer



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It hurt a little when I got it done but the real pain was that evening...even having the bed sheet across my tummy hurt - owie big time.
As Damiena said - go to a reputable piercer and only listen to their after care instructions.
It will take quite some time to heal - in the meantime, I'd suggest wearing low waisted trousers and skirts exclusively if you don't already. Let the air at that baby! :)
My piercing eventually grew out...literally grew out!, the ring moved in very small increments until it just fell out.
07-28-2007 02:35 AM #7Master BHUZzer





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yes, i agree that you must go to a reputable piercer. it is very serious to put a foreign body in your skin and must be done with knowledge, proper placement for you body and sterile instruments. the piercer should be a member of a professional association, not just some kid in the back of a funky shop.
these links might help:
http://www.safepiercing.org/
http://www.profound-piercing.co.uk/association.html
i have had my belly ring for 17 years and never had a problem because it was done by a professional and cared for properly during healing. i have never regretted it.
make sure that they use only surgical steel, gold or titanium for the piercing. anything else and your body will try to reject it. [rejection also happens when the piercing is placed to shallow]
you can request a topical anesthetic. you can also get Lmax at most pharmacies and if put on thickly for 1 hour prior to the service, will numb the skin.
one more thing: if the piercing costs as much as a new costume, it better be gold with major gem stones :)
good luck!
07-28-2007 02:43 AM #8Established BHUZzer


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It's definitely a good idea to go with surgical grade steel - it's safe and strong. Mine didn't really hurt much at all, and healed very swiftly. It wasn't even red or anything, and I never had any problems with it at all.
I used a saline solution to clean it, and pushed it through about once a day, with clean hands (I had a banana belly bar, not a ring).
Reiki also helped it to heal quickly.
I eventually took it out - not because it was unhealthy, but because I went through a period of illness and a healer told me it was disrupting chi flow along my meridian...
Go figure.
Good luck, and I'm sure it'll look gorgeous!
07-28-2007 06:24 AM #9Mega BHUZzer




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Mine took exactly 1 year to fully heal. I thought they were kidding when they said that. They weren't. Mine fell out about 9 months into healing. I didn't realize it until it's been out for about 3-4 hours. It closed up :( I had to go get it re-stretched. I like belly rings on all shaped and sizes of bellies. After all, we celebrate the curves, right?
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07-28-2007 07:49 PM #11Advanced BHUZzer



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Thanks for all the tips!!! I am getting more and more excited to get it done right away. I love how they look and am too impatient to wait til I reach my goal weight. I think I'll do some calling around to get prices. Maybe go back to the place that did my ankle tat
07-29-2007 01:37 AM #12Official BHUZzer

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I got mine done as a surprise for hubby when he was stationed in Afganistan. He'd always told me it would look good on me but I'm a baby when it comes to needles. I actually didn't feel a thing when it was done. The shop assistant was talking to me so I was distracted and it wasn't until shop owner who did the piercing closed the ring that I was even aware that he had started...LOL!
It did take around 9 months to heal all the way and it was a year before I changed out the ring for some of the pieces that hubby bought me once he was home. I have to be careful of any dangly pieces as I tend to snag those on everything but other than that I have had no problems or regrets. One thing I found out fairly quickly with mine was that a hand held showerhead with a stream setting worked really well for keeping the piercing clean and making sure I get all the anitbacterial soap out of the piercing.
The other thing I found after I had my belly button pierced was even though I had done it mainly for the hubby, I am just as thrilled with it. I feel like I have reclaimed a part of my body that I hadn't been really happy with since after my daughter was born.
07-29-2007 11:04 AM #13Advanced BHUZzer



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I didn't feel a thing when I got mine done. I actually had to ask if she had started yet. She said "I already finished!"
I used a salt-water solution on it (H2Ocean) and Dr. Bronner's soap. It was touchy for about a year. AFter six months I could change rings very carefully.
The bellybutton ring changed my perspective of my tummy entirely. I definitely have a better idea where my bellybutton is. It looks so cool though - I can't imagine ever not having it. I love coordinating the ring with my costumes.
07-30-2007 11:51 AM #14Advanced BHUZzer



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Well I am a 1x with curvy belly and hips and I could not believe how *cute* it looked. I loved it and after a couple of months was changing it to all sorts of really beautiful dangly rings, a big no no! It got very irritated although not infected and this time the Dial soap made it worse and although I switched to "Provon" a much better anti-bacterial liquid soap the piercing started to look oddly loose and flopping around - holes were getting too close together. My piercer said to take it out immediately and let it heal because it was "resurfacing" (piercer's term for when the body rejects a piercing by pushing it up to surface of skin). Mind you, it wasn't hurting, my body rejected it and this is very common with naval piercings.
Fortunately, they heal up fast - a month or two and it can be redone but this time I'm following aftercare instructions to the letter. No changing of the belly ring for six months, and after that only about once a week. So, I say go for it, the experience itself is a very mild "pinch" it is the aftercare that is extremely important; follow your piercer's instructions, don't wear waistbands that sit right on navel and ask about Provon as opposed to Dial soap, there is also a soak called "H20" that is really good or you can do the sea salt soak to calm it down in beginning couple of weeks. And, no tub baths, no hot tubs, pools or ocean or swimming - the water isn't *clean* enough and you could wind up having to go to doctor and get antibiotics.
I still say go for it - it is totally gorgeous looking and I will keep you guys posted after my "belly ring redo" on August 25.
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1. The actual piercing didn't hurt too much. The pain came during the first 6 months when I would forget about the new piercing and hug someone too hard or knock something into it. When I did exercises with belly on the floor (some yoga positions), I would tape a plastic water bottle cap over it to give myself a little buffer and reminder.
2. Turning is so very important or the skin will start to attach or grow tight. I got mine pierced with a banana bar. It made it difficult to rotate. I suggest a ring. It is much easier to turn. I soaked mine daily in warm sea salt water.
3. I don't think it looks bad at all on "bigger" bellies. I think it shows a sexy confidence.
4. I change my piercing sometimes between sets to match different costumes. I like the ones with dangles that move when you shimmy
I wouldn't recommend this until at least a year after the initial piercing.
For the first time changing the ring, I would go back to the piercer to have him/her show you/help you. Those beads in the ring are a pain to get in and out.
If you buy a banana bar, get a ton of extra screw tops. Mine always seem to come loose and roll away.
07-30-2007 01:48 PM #16Established BHUZzer


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Most of the advice on this thread is really good. It takes a year to fully heal, use antibacterial soap like Provon...Dial can be too harsh on some people's skin. However, you should not rotate the piercing. The piercing becomes tight because the sebum (not sure if I spelled this right) that your body secretes dries. This can make it sort of stick in place. You just need to soak in warm salt water and you can gently clean it. Rotating is bad because if you don't clean off all the dried crusty stuff (I know ick) you can drag some of that through the tender skin area which will delay healing. Just clean with Provon and use a warm salt soak and you will be just fine! I suggest reading the Tribalectic forums for more info on piercings.
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Oh also, get pierced with what you will want to be wearing after it heals. If you like the ring, get a ring. If you like the banana bar, get the banana bar. If you are pierced with a ring, there is a chance that if you want to switch to a bar later it might not be straight.
07-30-2007 02:01 PM #18Mega BHUZzer




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Yes it hurts. You're punching a hole in your flesh! But it doesn't last long.
USE H2Ocean!!!
If you can't find it in a piercing store in your area, order it online. I've had 8 piercings and it's the best stuff on earth! Spray it 6 times a day and then leave the piercing alone. I know some people have suggested bactine, but please don't use this. It will prolong your healing time.
If you do get a ring, like some one mentioned, it will heal sideways. They make J shaped bars for this type of piercing if you choose to switch after a year. Good luck!
07-30-2007 02:08 PM #19Advanced BHUZzer



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Belly piercing
I felt a pinch when mine was done, nothing more.
It did take a year to heal. My piercer (a friend who is a long time pro), had tried to talk me into a curved barbell at first, saying that they heal up MUCH faster than a ring. I was stubborn and went with the smallish ring. . . I had issues for months until i finally relented and switched. A month after I switched to the curved barbell I was all healed and could change out my jewelry as I pleased.
I suggest stainless steel or titanium for metals. And definitely no peroxide or alcohol, drying the area out invites infection. Gentle cleansing and daily moving of the jewelry is the best bet, but make sure your cleaner gets OUT of the piercing, other wise it can irritate (I suggest you do the cleaning/turning while int he shower).
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Yes, make sure you find a reputible piercer. I got mine done the first time and it was done too deep and it was always infected. It hurt really bad. I had it for about 2 1/2 years then had to have surgery (non related to peircing) and had to take it out for that. It closed immediately. I waited a year and got it done again. The second time was much better. Better piercer and it didn't hurt at all. It healed much quicker and no infections. I now change mine fairly often as well. I have a bigger belly and I've learned that the bent barbell or half moon style is best. A full hoop or circle ring tends to lay crooked or sideways and pulls, especially when I sit. For after care I used antibacterial soap and soaked it with non sea salt and water by filling a cup and holding it to my navel. It does help.
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THE DO’S AND DON’T's TO HEAL YOUR NAVEL PIERCING
DO-Use a mild antibacterial soap or sea salt in the shower twice a day. Cup your hand under the piercing and soak it for 1-2 minutes. Make sure when washing to ALWAYS rotate the ring. If this step is not taken your skin will start to heal around your jewelry and may tear the inside of the wound when jewelry moves. This is painful and can lead to infection
DO–Make sure you dry your navel thoroughly after cleaning. This should be done with a paper tissue as towels can harbor bacteria. If you have a very deep navel you should clean it every day using a clean cotton swab soaked in warm water taking extra care to remove any dirt and dry it properly afterwards
DO–Use tea tree oil as it promotes healing and lubricates the wound reducing tenderness. Apply a small amount with a cotton swab after cleaning then move the jewelry gently so it gets into the wound. Remove any excess with a tissue as leaving it on can cause the skin to become irritated. It may be purchased at supermarkets in the medicine section
DO–Continue to apply a drop or two of tea tree oil daily after the piercing is healed or the wound can become tight and dry.
DO–Use antibacterial soap or sea salt to cleanse your piercing. Stay out of oceans, public pools, and Jacuzzi’s
DO-Make sure that you wash the piercing carefully after exercising or sweating a lot as sweat acts like acid and can cause the wound to become aggravated
DO–Give the piercing some sunshine as it helps the body produce Vitamin D which helps promote healing. It also helps dry the wound and minimizes infection
I have to post this in 2 messages as it's too long.
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DON’T–Pull you naval up to look at the piercing as this will aggravate the wound. It’s there for other people to see. If you want to see it looks in the mirror
DON’T–Turn the ring in the piercing for the first 3-4 weeks. Move it very gently and only enough to remove the crusting. After that you can turn it enough for cleaning. Moving the ring constantly while it’s dry aggravates the wound and delays healing
DON’T–Use Mentholated Spirits or alcohol on the piercing as they are very astringent and can damage the wound. Don’t use Hydrogen Peroxide or Beta dine because they destroy the cells that form scar tissue. Don’t use creams or ointments as they keep the wound moist and hamper the healing process as well attract bacteria
DON’T–Wear tight clothes such as pantyhose, tight jeans or skirts during the healing process. They can cause the piercing to grow out, which means that the piece of flesh taken by the piercing gradually diminishes until the ring finally comes out; after the piercing is healed you may wear anything you like. Try to avoid synthetic fabrics that don’t let the wound breath. Try to wear clothes that give the piercing as much fresh air as possible
DON’T–Remove the ring during the healing phase because you will lose the piercing. Don’t replace jewelry until you’re fully healed. Silver body jewelry is especially dangerous as the silver oxidizes in the wound, which can cause allergic reactions and “Argyria” a permanent black mark inside the wound. Never wear silver body jewelry
DON’T–Hang chains or charms on your navel ring until the piercing is fully healed. They can get caught and tear the wound and hamper the healing process
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That's funny - when I had my belly pierced in England 6 years ago they handed me alcohol wipes and said to use them twice daily, turning the ring each time.
I did have the guy who pierced it change out the jewelry for me the first time, though. I was chicken. Mine was healed enough to change the jewelry in about two months.
07-30-2007 03:49 PM #24Advanced BHUZzer



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bottle cap - great idea.
My piercer gave me a banana bar and said that rings were more likely to get infected (due to rotating in and out whether you do it on purpose or not - dirt from outside gets inside), and also told me NOT to rotate. I didn't rotate at all and didn't have any issues. With the sea salt soaks, I didn't need to rotate - the water went through the hole all on its own.
I guess in the end - ask your piercer - they would have the latest information on how to treat a piercing.
07-30-2007 04:12 PM #25Official BHUZzer

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I've pierced my navel three times, and none of 'em hurt much. The first time was when I was 12, with a safety pin. I do not recommend this method. ;-) The second time was great, 'cept my folks found out about it and forced me to take it out. The THIRD time I kept it and have had it for almost a decade. Love it! The biggest advice, as many have already said, is find someone who is very clean and has lots of experience. Make them show you what they do to maintain sanitary conditions. And follow the instructions they give you. Oh, and don't let anyone toss you over their shoulder playfully the day after you get pierced -- OW. You'll love it when you get it done! ;-)
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sorry to be the wet blanket, here. I've had my navel pierced twice. first time I had to take it out because it refused to heal, partly because piercing technology around here was new and it wasn't done very well. second time, even though it was done perfectly by a serious piercing pro, and I took care of it exactly as I was supposed to, it didn't heal after over a year. I just got tired of it hurting and took it out again. also had to abandon a nose piercing. it may be that my body just doesn't respond well to piercings (although my ears have always been fine). so, moral of story, piercings don't always work out. be prepared for a less than perfect experience, and hopefully you won't be disappointed. :)
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You all have been so helpful! I almost had it pierced today but chickened out. I was thinking I might do it tomorrow but my hubby and I are going on a "romantic" getaway Wed to the beach. Guess I'll wait til after our trip. The place I had my tattoo done also does piercings so I was planning on going back to them. Didn't have any problem wiht the tat and it still looks great after 5yrs. I trust them there. I will keep checking back here to remind myself of all the wonderful tips :) I'll let you know when I get it done
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Well I did it!!!! I got my belly pierced today :0 It hurt a little but I am sooo glad I did it!!!! Thank you all for the words of wisdom and encouragement!
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